Hypergamy doesn’t care about your feelings. Neither do I.
Let me be direct with you: high value man dating in 2024 is a battlefield. I’ve been single for four years now—by choice—and in that time I’ve learned more about female psychology than most men learn in a lifetime. The reason I’m single isn’t because I can’t attract women. It’s because modern women cannot handle what I bring to the table. Consequently, I’ve removed myself from the dating marketplace entirely. Strategically.
My ex-girlfriend Amanda left me in 2021. She said I had “changed” and become “obsessed with weird internet stuff” and that I “talked about alpha and beta dynamics at her sister’s wedding.” However, what she really meant was that I had leveled up beyond her comfort zone. Women claim they want high value men. When they actually meet one, they panic.
I didn’t chase her. A high value man never chases. I simply let her go and began my monk mode journey.
The Apex Male Protocol
For the past four years, I’ve been developing what I call the Apex Male Protocol—a comprehensive system for becoming the man that women say they want but consistently reject because they’re not ready. Indeed, the protocol includes: waking at 5 AM, cold showers, a strict gym regimen, reading books about stoicism and warfare, and eliminating all women from your life so you can focus on becoming attractive to women.
It’s working. I can tell because I feel powerful. Additionally, I’ve made fourteen sales of my online course, which teaches other men the same principles. That’s fourteen men whose lives I’ve changed. Similarly, my podcast “Unfiltered Masculine” reached an audience of—well, the download numbers were affected by a technical glitch. The point is that I’m building something.
Meanwhile, I DoorDash on weekends to supplement my income. This isn’t because the Apex Male Protocol doesn’t pay well. It’s actually a strategic networking opportunity. I meet people. I observe society. I maintain my independence from traditional employment, which is a form of masculine sovereignty.
What Women Won’t Tell You
Here’s what high value man dating has taught me about female nature: women operate on hypergamy. They’re always looking for a man of higher status. But when they find one, they become intimidated and leave. This is exactly what happened with Amanda. This is why I remain single—not because I’m undateable, but because I refuse to lower my standards to accommodate female insecurity.
Some might ask: “Blaze, if you’re such a high value man, why haven’t you been on a date in three years?” First of all, it’s been closer to four. Second, dates are a waste of masculine energy. As my colleague Dalton Vance understands, sometimes you have to step back from the game to truly win it. I’m not avoiding dating. I’m strategically preserving my value until a woman worthy of my protocol emerges.
My apartment in Miami costs $1,900 a month. It’s small, but it’s *mine*. Well, it’s my landlord’s. But the energy in it is mine. I’ve optimized every corner for masculine productivity. There’s no feminine clutter here. No woman has been inside it in four years.
That’s not loneliness. That’s sovereignty. And if you can’t tell the difference, you’re not ready for the Apex Male Protocol anyway.
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