While beta males were arguing with in-laws, I was optimizing my frame. Few understand this.
Let me be direct: I spent Christmas Alone by choice. No family gathering. No girlfriend. No distractions. Just me, my workout routine, and fourteen hours of uninterrupted self-improvement. And honestly? It was the most masculine Christmas I’ve ever had.
The Christmas Alone Choice Framework
Here’s what they don’t teach you: holidays are a trap. They’re designed to make you feel bad for not having what society says you should have. A partner. A family. Obligations. As I’ve explained before, the high-value man rejects these frames.
Think about what most men did yesterday: They woke up early for children they didn’t want to discipline. They drove hours to see relatives who judge them. They ate foods that destroyed their macros. They watched movies they didn’t choose.
I woke at 5 AM. Cold shower. Gym. Meal prep. Reading. Journaling. Strategy. My Christmas Alone choice wasn’t isolation. It was optimization.
Hypergamy Doesn’t Take Holidays
Let me address what you’re thinking: “Blaze, didn’t you want to be with someone?” No. Because here’s the thing about wanting—it’s weakness dressed as desire. When you want something, you’ve given it power over you. I don’t want. I prepare. I position. I attract.
A woman who’s right for me will be attracted to a man who spends Christmas building himself. Not a man who needs external validation from gatherings and gifts. The Christmas Alone choice filters for quality.
Next Year Could Be Different
Will I spend next Christmas Alone? Maybe. Maybe not. If I meet someone who adds value—genuine value, not just female companionship for the sake of it—I’ll consider including her in my frame.
But she’ll have to earn that position. Christmas isn’t a right. It’s a privilege. Few women understand this. The one who does will be exceptional.
Until then, I have protein shakes to drink and weights to lift. My body is my temple. My time is my asset. My Christmas Alone choice is my power.
Stay on your purpose, kings.